Your Life is the reflection of your choices

In the previous blogs we saw the need to

• Examine our Belief system
• Examine our Thought pattern
• Examine our Attitude
• Examine the role of Feelings in all we do

We saw how these four aspects are very important and how they influence and have power over all that we do and decide. They are formed from the childhood days and over the years have formed into behavior pattern and have affect all our actions. 

So these things may seem to be of no worth to you. It might be something you never ever paid attention to or even thought is necessary. But they are all very important and they are all inter related. 

• They affect every area of your life. 
• They are  things concerning you.
• They affect the people who are around you.
• They affect the environment in  which you are. 
• They affect your work environment
• They play a major role in the way you relate to family. 
• These aspects are so crucial that they affect the outcome of whatever you do.

It may be small and insignificant now. But taking control of your thoughts has a series of effect like a domino as it affects your feeling and attitude which decides how you act and how your behavior is. These aspects form your personality which will decide how your life is going to be. You are where you are because of your choices which were based on your thoughts, attitudes and perception. Do not be dominated by them but in turn take control for you are capable of bringing the desired change in your life. 

So as discussed above the only person capable of bringing a change in your life is YOU. The place in life where you are is because of the choices you had made. 

• How is your life right now? 
• Are you happy in the way its going presently? 
• Do you want a change?
• What change do you want?
• Do you know how to bring the change?
• What are your fears?

By spending a few hours examining yourself and answering the questions you can get a clear picture of how things are and what needs to be done. Never forget you can do it, you are capable of it, you are the ONLY ONE WHO CAN BRING THE DESIRED CHANGE IN YOUR LIFE. So never give up. Spend time to know more about you and the areas that need to change. Take one step a time and take day by day action. YOU CAN DO IT.......... and make your life take a turn for the best and enjoy a joyful life with contentment.