Sunday, January 17, 2016

YOU CAN CHANGE!!!!


In the previous blog we saw the necessity of reviewing our life to take control and bring in a positive change in the way of leading life.
  • Examining the belief system
  • Examining the thought pattern
  • Examining the attitudes and perceptions
  • Examining the negative feelings that are controlling us. 
The above mentioned ones are very important as they influence our actions and behaviors

ACTIONS

They are the things you do, act and react to a situation or person every moment of your life. Lot of times they are done spontaneously without a second thought. We wonder how we did it and many times don't even pay attention to why we did what we did?  After examining the above said belief system, thought system, attitude and feelings you will find that these four have a major role to play in the way you act.

  • Actions are not spontaneous
  • They are the result of what is going on in your mind right now / these days
  • They are the result of what you believe in. These believes are formed right from childhood days.
  • The attitude what you have in you will be made known in the way you act. You don't contradict yourself unless you take conscious steps to overcome the attitudes you want to change. These attitudes are also the result of years of experience you have gone through and what you have understood and told yourself about.
  • Feelings are powerful and when you are happy you will act in a particular way and when you are sad you cannot do the same in the same way. They affect you drastically and also influence the outcome of the work that you do. 
BEHAVIOR



As always said again and again all things are related. When you decide to change one thing you need to see the things that trigger them or are linked with them. 


Behavior is the range of actions and mannerisms made by individuals in conjunction with themselves or their environment. It is the response to various stimuli or inputs. 





  • Behavior is not permanent
  • Behavior can be changed
  • You can control the way you behave
  • You can decide how you are going to behave in adv




Words, attitudes, believes and behavior forms the foundation on which your life is based on. They decide the way your day is going to go. You are capable and able to control them and change them if you keep trying without giving up. So keep trying till you succeed. 

YOU CAN CHANGE AND CAN ENJOY LIFE TO ITS FULLEST.

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