Friday, January 8, 2016

Positive attitude is a process



In this world everything is got quick. From food, ticket booking,  shopping and even bank transactions are all in the finger tip. This has cultivated an attitude of WANT NOW attitude even among the adults. Like kids who cry in the supermarket the adults are also not trained. Now no one has the patience to stand in queue to get things done. We sit in the comfort of the home and get things done at our convenience.

So when talk of behavior and attitude people expect the same thing. They want the change and results in a day. But its not going to work that way. There are still a whole lot of stuff that have not changed. Especially the sowing and reaping process. No one can get the fruit without sowing. Even after sowing they cannot expect the fruit the next day. It has its own gestation time. There are bamboos which take 4 years to shoot up. Every day the farmer is taking care of the land where he sowed  and waits  with patience and a positive attitude imagining the reaping and the profit he is going to get out of this process.



So having know this never compare the development of positive attitude to a fast food shop. Consider it as the agricultural process with good confirmed results. So at the end of the day the achievement is not  how you have reacted or failed. Always evaluate how much you have changed from the beginning. Always compete with yourself in that way you will be motivated and will know the positive changes that have come in.

Always have positive expectations and enjoy even the slight victories you get in your day. Enjoy every day. One day a time. Sure results are guaranteed. Enjoy the process. 

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